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Grief and Loss

Robin Purcell, stepmother of Lance Cpl. Nicholas C. Kirven, receives a hug during a memorial service, July 22, held in honor of Kirven and fellow team leader, Cpl. Richard P. Schoener. Both Marines of Kilo Company, 3rd Battalion, 3rd Marine Regiment, were killed during a firefight, May 8, in Afghanistan.
Photo by: Cpl. Megan L. Stiner People who are mourning the death of a loved one experience a myriad of emotions and responses. Different kinds of losses dictate different responses, so not all of the suggestions for dealing with those in a grief situation will suit everyone. Likewise, no two people grieve alike, what works for one may not work for another. So whatever the response you see and what the mourner feels may be normal for that specific situation and Marine. There are many moods and expressions of grieving. There is even acute grief that causes a person to “feel like I'm going crazy.” Helping a Marine understand that acute grief reactions are normal reactions to significant losses can be very helpful. This is not something that the Marine can snap out of in a hurry. It will usually take some time and the amount of time is different for everyone and every situation.

Washington D.C. native, Staff Sgt. Charles Dorsey, Marine Corps Funeral Director assigned to Marine Barracks Washington, walks through section 66 of Arlington National Cemetery paying his respects to America's fallen heroes. The 31-year-old Dorsey has held the postion of funeral director for nearly a year and said that the combination of his faith, his family and his Marines have been the cornerstone enabling him to perform his sometimes difficult and very emotional role.

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